I dated a girl for 1 month but things were not going well so I broke up with her. Eventhough we both still have feelings, she thinks that I dont have feelings anymore. So we decided to just become friends and after days of denial she finally accepted the idea. She decided that she will control her feelings just so we can stay friends because she loves my company. Now, i have very strong feelings for her but I will not tell her about it because I cannot date her now. I want to wait until she is more independent and mature then I hope we can date and work something out. So my question is: since she thinks i dont have feelings anymore, will her feelings eventually die out? Keep in mind right now she's almost in love with me at this stage. Are her feelings going to die out eventually? Especially if I dont tell her that I have feelings too? I really can't date her right now because she immature and too dependent to be in a relationship but once she reaches her potential? She will be perfect.
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Real feelings don't just go away. And even though her feelings for you may not fade for a very long time, you're putting her through a type of hell by not disclosing your feelings towards her. If she thinks you don't have feelings for her, she's going to probably give up maybe not now, but yes eventually, so you should tell her your point of view, how you really like her and see a future relationship. Honesty - best policy.0