I just started dating my current girlfriend a few weeks ago. Her ex boyfriend and her dated for 6 months and were pretty serious I guess. They broke up about two months ago. When they broke up he messed things up pretty bad and he got involved when she was talking to another guy (Not me) and she told me she hated him. We have been. moving pretty fast and she says she loves me and I do to, but I can't help to think she still loves him. Am I a rebound?
Most Helpful Girl
It could be if it was that recent. And she might not be completely over him if she trash talks him saying how much she hates him. However, you shouldn't doom your chances of finding a healthy relationship with this person even if it was a rebound status. There is a high rate in chance for rebound BASE relationships to work out for the better. And 6 months really isn't that long of anything to be much of a threat to you.
Just try to ignore her past when you're with her.
Make her feel glad she found you and avoid her ever speaking of her ex again. Always change the subject if it ever comes up.
Good luck :)0
Most Helpful Guy
when people say that they were serious after 6 months, I roll my eyes. 6 months is not even close to being able to fully know and understand a person, and 2 months definitely is too short. Sounds like your girlfriend really wants to be in a relationship long term, which is why she's telling you all this so quick, to try and keep you hooked.
some people love the idea of a story about how they fell in love at first sight, and I would suspect your girlfriend is one of these people.0