why do so many guys on here assume that girls have it super easy when it comes to dating and that all, or at leats most girls, get approached often etc?
Im not supermodel attractive nor very outgoing, so maybe thats why my sitatuation is what it is, but finding a cool guy to date is very hard actually.
i have asked guys out (been stood up pretty much everytime), i have approached guys, i have been inactive and let guys approach me etc. I have done this for 2-3 years or so, and i still haven't met a guy that i have a connection with (that lasted)
Many of my friend experience the same.. they got approached a bit more then me, bu they are more outgoing and it was mostly guys who only wanted sex so they still didn't get what they wanted.
yeah, i do get approached.. but not by the guys i want.. So picture a scenario where the only few girls that showed any interest with you were realy obese girl or unattractive girls that aren't interesting nor have anything emtionally, mentally or physically to offer you?
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't say ALL women have it easier but SOME women certainly do and I would say as MOST women do not approach men, it's harder for men because there is more pressure, men are supposed to approach women.
If women are getting approached by guy after guy that doesn't float their boat then they need to be PROACTIVE.
I have sympathy for women who expect everything to be given to them because they were born with a vagina.
Sort yourselves out, please, the self-entitlement SOME women have is scandalous.2
Most Helpful Girl
They feel this way because they are only seeing their side of the story. They don't realize that women have the same problems. They just assume that women have it much easier. But they don't. The only people who have it easy are those who are very likeable, popular and really good looking who also happen to be very lucky in dating.
They don't see that women have the same fears, problems and challenges when it comes to dating. I've seen so many questions on here where guys are complaining about not being able to find a girlfriend, but then they say the only girls who approach them are too fat, or are ugly. Well excuse me, but maybe they need to really think whether their standards may be too high?
I'm not saying that's the case for everyone, but sometimes giving a person a shot is not the end of the world. I can't tell you how many guys refuse to even go for a coffee with me just because of how I look.
I'm not a supermodel, but neither are they. I don't approach guys who are super fit and super good looking, I know my value in the looks department.
It's frustrating, but you can't take it personally. Not everyone is going to like you. I think when it comes to guys who say women have it easier, they don't see the tears and broken hearts of the girls who have the same problems.
It's really crappy when you invest lots of time in a relationship to find out it was all a lie. It's also crappy when you have a hard time meeting people in real life.
We all face challenges. The only people who have it easier are the lucky ones lol0