I'm 14 years old, a freshman in high school. I have a boyfriend, but am I too young for one? I guess it's a matter of opinion, but I wanted to hear from more people than just my overprotective friends and family.
Most Helpful Guy
No just take it slow, limit your emotional investment for now. I know it sounds cold but you should just enjoy each other for each other now. 14 is way to early for sexual stuff, you will regret it. Use this to learn about yourself and life in general. You seem smart enough, just don't let passion blind you1
Most Helpful Girl
Hmmm. I had my first kiss at 16 and I am in my first relationship now (almost 19). I feel like I understand a lot more now as an adult. But if you feel like you're mature and you know how to go about things then go ahead! My friend started dating her boyfriend in 7th grade and they're still together as freshmans in college! So really it depends on you, your boyfriend and the relationship. Long distance can be a drag, especially since you're so young you can't drive... but good luck! Be careful, safe and smart :D There's nothing wrong with a bit of experience. And whatever happens, you'll learn from it so don't take it so hard. Hope this helps!0