I'll catch flack for this, but a lot of women don't age well. They probably assume wrongly or correctly that you'd be better taken care of and looking than a 45 year old woman. The other factor is if you don't have kids. Their kids are in college or they can at least see the light at the end of the tunnel. Not a lot of men want to tack on more kids to look after. Another point is the mid life crisis. I'm also on a dating website and have had more women in their 40's and 50's message me (not including the women who have obviously shaved off 15 years from their age). I think they are in the mid life crisis and just want to fuck around with someone younger.
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Yeah I'm in a similar boat - I say I'm looking for guys between 27-34 but i get guys as young as 22 and as old as 45 messaging me and some of them are even from different states. I generally just delete them straight away when i realize the age problem and i also delete any guy that messages me that doesn't have a photo - i have photos so its only fair to be able to see who I'm dealing with. You will always get messages from people outside your preferences, its one of the basic laws of how those sites work - just delete them.
I think this dating site makes it wrong then. If thats your preference, everyone out of this age group should not be able to see you... anyways, its cool that you also have interest in younger guys 😎 I guess Im just a little too young.. oh well
It probably doesn't help that you don't have photos for them to see. I have a HUGE bias against online dating simply from my personal experience though. Lol, so any advice I give is probably not wanted. Be careful & I hope you find your man. :D