25 year old man here. So I've been dating this bubbly blonde for a few weeks. Everything has gone well... until now. My girlfriend confessed to me that she's 17! This girl has the body of a 22 year old but I have not slept with her. I looked at her and said "I could go to jail for dating you!" She said "I'll be 18 tommorow and I'm sorry I lied to you." I haven't dumped her because I'm supposed to go trick or treating with her and her nieces. But I am pissed she lied. Should I keep dating her?
Most Helpful Girl
well it was messed up that she lied, but its understandable. i'm basically the same age as her i turned 18 this summer, and i dont lie about my age but seeing that you are like, what? 10 years older? then her, its not surprising that she lied. i remember when me and my friend were like 14 and liked guys who were like 19, we didn't want to say our real ages because we thought they'd think we're too young you know so we said we were 16 and they believed it too. it just means she really likes you and didn't want the age difference to be a deal breaker for you so she waited til she was 18 to be honest with you and noww start a real serious relationship2
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Most Helpful Guy
Lying is wrong. I'm sorry to say but at your ages you too are probably at different points emotionally. I would let her go, but please be kind. She only lied because she likes you. Heart break is the worst just explain to her that what you have isn't healthy. If she needs support be there. Do you really like her. If you do you will make sure she makes it out of this okay0