My girlfriend likes to party and at times she gets drunk. Not every week but twice a month. She promised me she would not drink and she got really drunki when i picked her up. The next day she went to go say sorry cause she broke her promise but i had enough and called her worthless and made a blonde joke. It made her sad and she even cried. Should i say sorry?
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For sure, man. Be the mature one and apologize to her sincerely, but let her know that what she did really hurt you and because you have such strong feelings for her, when she broke her promise to you and you saw her sloppy drunk after she told you she wouldn't drink, your emotions took over and you reacted out of anger/disappointment.
Use this as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship with her and hopefully come to a mutually agreeable conclusion to this drinking problem.
Be a man though an apologize to her first, and don't do the "I'm sorry, but..."
(leave the 'but' out of it... 'but' basically is saying that whatever you said before it wasn't really true. This is more of an "I'm sorry AND... (... this is why I think I got so upset with you, can we talk about?)" type of situation0