I've known this girls since February (I'm now a senior and she's a junior) let's call her Emily. she's a really sweet, innocent, and cute girl, super smart we go to one of tge best high schools in the country. Emily and I talked a lot for the first couple months and then we stopped talking because I didn't get a sheet for service hours that I needed. although she did eventually gave it. In the summer we didn't talk although I did tell her to hang out but she either didn't want to or she had a valid reason (it was something like her dad didn't let her and she got sick). I started school about a 2 months ago and we started talking a bit more than last school year. She started acting strange these past few weeks and bringing up how her grades are falling and her family issues at home, then a couple days ago she tells me that she's "kinda" together with this guy who I met once because I was at the library with her for her homework which wasn't planned and really whenever we do hang out its never planned, and while we were at the library there was a creepy old guy following her and I was comforting her and then the other guy came to the library and we all walked away to walk her home and he just said that the creep guy was probably mentally ill or slow really didn't show any concern. And he didn't bother walking her in front of her home but I did because I wanted her to feel safe and make sure she got home safe. (I've noticed she happens to place herself in front of me when I'm in my neighborhood when we go home because we live in the same neighborhood and I did move out of the city I still hang out in my old hood). So she told me before that her friend ( that guy) gives her rides from school to her home. She also played him $40 and I questioned it in my mind I didn't say anything because I see her quite a lot on the bus and train. She also has been really down and blue when she is usually jolly and happy. When she brought up she's "kinda" with that guy who is 20.
Is this girl getting taken advantage of?
I was really upset when she told me that she's "kinda together" with that guy because I really liked her but is she asking for help? She really doesn't know how to express herself and is inexperienced and naive. Im not saying I know everything but I know enough about the world to know how people are and for a grown 20 year old to go after a 16 year old and tell her that he knows people are going to judge her , it shows how he knows what he's doing and is fully aware of how high school girls are.
Should I help her or not? If so why and what are my goals, intentions, I'm not trying to be in the friend zone and I'm ready to move on but I'm not sure if I can knowing I should've told her something if she's brought up her issues to me. Thanks for any help
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