So I was dating a guy back in August/sept time for about a month! Things were going good & he was the first guy in a really long time I actually liked & thought this could go somewhere. He then vanished, he wouldn't respon to my texts ( I sent 2 in total over the past month or 2 he had vanished)
i writ him off & got on with my life. Now out of the blue today he messaged me 'hey you alright? x' what is his deal? I have no idea what to do about this situation. I'm torn, part of me wants to message him back as I did like him & I would always wonder what if. The other part of me says fuvk him off & that I deserve better. What do I do? How can I accept him back into my life without him thinking it's okay to do what he did?
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I don't see why you can't reply but don't me overly friendly. Just say "yeah I'm doing good thanks and you?" or something along those lines. If he truly likes you he'll make up for whatever happened and will bring it up in one way or another but till then keep your distance and just keep contact minimal. If he cares he'll make a effort especially considering how he flaked on you.0