So I've had a crush on this guy since summer, and actually we attended the same college. I didn't know him before that.
He's in the same classes as two of my old classmates, and they are all three very good friends.
He's a pretty popular guy and he has got a lot of confidence about himself.
So recently we started talking, and it became more and more.
Then one day he offered to help me with my homework, and he helped me VERY well! And he was very patient with me.
Then later that evening we ordered food and he kissed me for the first time.
But the same evening he wanted to sleep with me, and I didn't know what to say so I just let him. I just wanted to sleep and cuddle, but he kept touching me and everything even though I told him not to, and it ended up with him being so desperate, that I gave him a hj and then we fell asleep.
In school, he only smiles when he walks past me and gives me a high five, but we chat allllll the time on facebook and text each other on the phone, and he also calls me a lot just to talk.
We attended a concert aswell, but I was with my friends and he was with his friends, and when I saw him he only briefly hugged me and said he had to find his friends, and then left.
Last night he slept here again, and he was desperate since he entered my house. Like really.
It ended up a bit sexual, but I felt a bit rushed about it because I never did those things before.
But he met my mom and my little brother, and he is SO nice to them. He also wants to be with my little brother all the time (he's only got sisters)
But then last night, he told me while we were half asleep that he didn't want a relationship.
But he's still texting and calling and treating me as he did before.
What is going on? Please be honest?
Also, he compliments me a lot and talks about me to his friends.
Most Helpful Girl
He has admitted he doesn't want a relationship , so it appears to me that he looks on you as a Friend With Benefits. If that is not what you want then stop having sexual contact with him, or it'll end up in heartache for you.
If you feel he is using you then you are responsible for it too, because you are allowing him to use you. Honesty is better than false hope, and he was honest with you about not wanting a relationship.1
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