So I've always been told that the guy is supposed to text first and if he was really interested, he'd text you first, or you'll look desperate if you text him first, so I was just wondering what you all think of this
You'll look desperate if you text him first?
What Guys Said 1
no rule there, if you want to talk or arrange something go for, don't depend on the guy0
What Girls Said 1
Definitely not, the only way you look desperate is if you're texting him all the time. A simple 'hey what's up' , isn't desperate. There is no rule saying the guy has to call/text/ask you out first...this is the 21st century. I call/text/ask out guys first sometimes, because sometimes they're too shy or stupid, not to mention not psychic, to know that we want them to contact us...so go for it.0
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