Befriending before dating?

Lets say you've seen a girl/guy you have a crush on. You meet each other for the first time, talking, getting to know a bit about each other etc. Would you befriend him/her first before you starting dating or go for the kiss straight away?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'd much rather be friends with someone before I start dating them. I like being comfortable around someone before thinking of taking things further. If I go on a date with someone I barely know, I'm always nervous and it's a lot harder for me to really be myself, but if I know the guy I'm with a bit better, things go much more smoothly.

    Also, putting the effort into building a friendship with someone really shows that you care for them.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes, that's a good idea to always befriend that person and then proceed to dating.

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What Girls Said 3

  • I like to know a guy and be comfortable around him (friends) before going further

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  • Yeah, I would rather befriend them first. I wouldn't be comfortable with going on a date with a stranger.

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  • Befriend for sure

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What Guys Said 3

  • Show romantic intention early, or you will miss out for someone else who isn't beating around the bush..
    It happens a lot

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  • While you're trying to "befriend" her there will be another dude who is straightforward and won't beat around the bush.

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  • No, that isn't how it works. Go straight to romance.

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