I said " I won't date you just because you are black " Is it racist or preference?


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  • It sounds racist :( preference would be more like I like white girls more than I like black girls.

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    • But a preference solely based on race is racist to me, don't you think.
      Somehow,
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to date"
      Sounds pretty similar too..
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to give jobs"

    • So preferring a race is racist then
      ?

    • I always believed so, but most people here think it's okay.

What Girls Said 6

  • Its a preference!

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  • Sounds pretty racist to me.

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    • If I would had said " I am not attracted to black girls, " had it been not racist? Considering both of them mean the same thing... (If i am not attracted to someone I won't date them policy)

    • I guess it's a preference but it depends why...

    • It's funny I actually have had some girls say this to me only it's a little worse cause I say Im mixed and they say we'll you look black so no

  • yeah sorry its pretty racist.
    but its just your taste in girls
    and if you dont like black girls just be honest.

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  • Um sounds racist

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  • not all black people are bad so saying that hurts a lot of COLORED people

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  • If u don't mind me asking but why don't u date black girls?

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    • bc I find their faces ugly. ie. I am not attracted to them.

What Guys Said 6

  • If you don't explain why you don't date black women it can be seen as racist, cause people will instantly think it's because of hate towards them, and not because you have a preference.

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  • Preference. Its like, for example, some girls saying they don't date guys under 6 ft. No one's going to scream heightism. They veil it as preference. I see no difference. You're attracted to what you're attracted to.

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    • Because heightism isn't made a thang. We have made racism a big thing.

  • Technically racist. But it shouldn't be treated as such.

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  • I dont date Black girls either, just a preference

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    • But a preference solely based on race is racist to me, don't you think.
      Somehow,
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to date"
      Sounds pretty similar too..
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to give jobs"

    • I just find them really ugly

  • Preference

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  • Preferences but also why you said it is what really matters

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    • But a preference solely based on race is racist to me, don't you think.
      Somehow,
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to date"
      Sounds pretty similar too..
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to give jobs"

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    • Ok. If they don't want to choose them to date, you already know that's a preference, this is why I said, "why you said it really matters". So why don't you answer your own question and say why you said "I won't date you just because you are black "

    • "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to date"
      Sounds pretty similar too..
      "I don't like black people so I won't choose them to give jobs"

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