Guys, what would you do if you were in my shoes?

U like this girl
U used to regularly talk to her
She's best friends with her ex (she's not sure if she still has feelings for him)
She had a doubt you like her and always subtly asks you to tell her
Finally you tell her you like her
She replies that it's just an infatuation and will go away
You two start being friends again
You decide to be a close friend to her
But now she kinda avoids you. Will talk to you online but will not hangout with you in person.
So you start to avoid too (online + in person).
Then she gets mad at you for avoiding her and asks what's the problem in talking online.

What would you do?


What Girls Said 1

  • i wonder why she avoids you like this... that's weird... but seems like its going nowhere...


What Guys Said 1

  • Talk to her in person. In a private setting. Tell her what you think is going on and that you don't want this because you like her.

    • I can't. She just disappears everytime I go looking for her. In the moment if I ask her where she is, she makes excuses.

    • Then ask her why she avoids you. Look bro, if she avoids you, stop chasing. You are better than this. There are too many girls who will be better.