He says he loves me but we can't be in a relationship.
We have fun together but it's getting harder because now we are an hour apart.
We message everyday but sometimes it feels one sided.
I feel like i'm putting in all this effort because I want this more.
He had pictures of his ex when they were together, she was his background, all the good parts of them when they were together is what I want.
He told me he loves me but if it was love then wouldn't he try?
Most Helpful Guy
You're just a fuck buddy until the woman he wants/is looking for comes along. If you want more then you need to make this known (if you haven't already) and if you have and he has not reciprocated then your vagina won't make him commit to you, so you're wasting your time and ultimately hurting yourself emotionally in the process.0
Most Helpful Girl
Because he doesn't want commitment, it's the hard truth, if he truly did love you and want to be with you he would make it happen. The fact that you guys are an hour apart isn't even bad or as bad as it could be.0