I have a very nice friend with benefits. We are really good friends besides the sex. I told him I was getting some feelings for him, he told me he had felt the same a while ago, but that we should just remain as friends.
After that I decided to be more open to other guys and I went on dates into two guys: the nice guy and the bad guy (no sex or kissing with any of them). I'm feeling kind of guilty that I'm kind of juggling 3 guys at the same time? But then I don't really have a compromise with any of them, and I'm just getting to know the other 2 better while the first one warms up my feet?
Is this a bad thing?
Should I inform friend with benefits I'm getting to know more guys... or should I just tell him if it gets serious/ or physical with one of the other guys?
Most Helpful Guy
Since you are not in a relationship with any of these men then I wouldn't bother informing any of them but if you do start sleeping with one more than one man then it might be an idea to let your friends with benefit know and that applies if you enter a new relationship. Unless you enjoy going from man-to-man and enjoy committing acts of infidelity.1
Most Helpful Girl
You shouldn't need to inform anything to friends with benefits that all they are fwb! Do you want to catch feeling for him? When you are ready to settle with a guy, tell your friends with benefits bye bye!0