Okay Im turning 18 VERY soon I met this guy when I was in middle school we started dating when we were 12 so about 6 years we have been dating. Ever since we were little we always told eachother we wanted to marry eachother and that we couldnt wait till we were older and could cuddle in bed and hold hands whenever we wanted. Im turning 18 SO SOON. This is the guy I wanna marry. I want to spend my life with him and have kids. But my friends are so unsupportive they think its weird to get married as soon as you turn 18 but Im madly in love with this guy. And he loves me just as much. Then one of them told me we wouldn't make a cute couple... Like wtf does that mean. They said because he has brown skin brown eyes and black hair it would be weird to date a blue eyes pale skin blonde girl. And would just be ugly together. Like wtf. Looks dont matter because we love eachother. Are they just being immature about it? Or is it me?
Most Helpful Guy
Don't rush into marriage, your late teens and early 20's are a time when soooo much changes, you come out the other side a different person than you are right now.
If your relationship with this guy is good enough to consider marriage right now, it should be able to make it until you're at least out of college (or reach that age... 22-25 or thereabouts).
If marriage is supposed to be for life, waiting another couple of years isn't that long.
A lot, if not most people who rush into marriage in their teens/ very early 20's end up getting divorced before long so the odds aren't really in your favor, no matter how in love you are right now.
Wait a little longer, it won't hurt the relationship and you'll get a lot more support from your friends and family if your 18th birthday party isn't also your wedding party.
Most Helpful Girl
Well I suggest you wait until your older! Until you can figure yourself out as a person! Learn the career path you want and learn more about who you are!0