This is the story of my life and I can't seem to fix it at all! I was dating a guy for three years with so much drama and then we both ended it out of anger and decided to be just friends. Well that just friends turned out to still going to the movies and going to dinner and going to the store together and all that stuff. But I want to see other guys because he was my first boyfriend and he don't want to see any other girls because he loves me. And I still love him. But there's this guy I met in the summer who is totally opposite to this guy I dated for three years. He's hot, muscular and very polite and little cocky I think but people say He's just very confident compared to the guy I dated who does everything for me no matter what not good looking, a little cute but liked him for his personality. I never got to get to know this other guy because I was still involved with my boyfriend at the time. We kissed in the summer and recently went to see a movie as friend and then I went home. My big problem is that I still love the guy I dated for three years and loves how he takes care of me and does everything for me but I won't no if he is the right one for me until I start seeing other people. He told me he wouldn't stick around if I was going to hang out with other guys alone and that's what I am starting to do and he don't like it. I just don't want to loose him in my life.
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If he really care about you, he would stick around. If he loves you, he will be willing to give you some space in order to figure out what you want. He don't want to pressure you in your decision. Sound to me like he is pressuring you. If you feel pressure then neither of the guys are worth it. Dump both of them and move on with your life. Your first boyfriend, does not meams that he has to be the last one. Go out and enjoy your self, enjoy life and you deserve better!1