I'm 16, 6'1" and weigh 245 lbs but look about 200. Whenever I try and get a girl to like me I'm super nice, compliment her, give her my jacket, etc. but I always go straight into the friendzone and never can climb out. This one girl who I've liked for the past month, who literally everytime I see her I say "Hey gorgeous," asked me if I thought one of my friends was flirting BACK at her. I have always been super nice, tease her a little bit, and kind of handsy (hugs, high 5, tazing, etc) and I still have yet to find a girlfriend. Girls seriously do y'all like super nice guys or no? Also can you see a slightly fat kid as attractive because I can freaking bench 190, squat 250, and standing press about 150, so I'm obviously not weak and doughboyish? Please help because I'm f*cking done with being rejected over and over again.
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i have a friend who has told me the same exact thing after i regected him.
(well not after but a couple days after because he was sad and im not the type of person to just be mean to a person after i regect them)
but what i told him was:
I used to be like that too.
I was clouded by my own desire to love someone and i didn't see that my friends love me too.
also i know that girls like guys with spiked hair... i find it kind of attractive and i told my friend who was comming to me for advise about this too.
one last thing i told him was:
try not to make it too easy to tell that you like her.
for example i know that if you stare at a girl a lot (now dont do it too often or you might look like a stalker) and she catches your stare... smile at her!
she will be thinking about it all day... because she won't understand why you did that... and thus you will be on her mind!
hope this helps!