Before I tried this my messages were being deleted before even being read, now they are being read but not responded to too often (probably as I don't have pics up, although I've stated I'm happy to show them if asked for). I've got a good profile otherwise, stated my interests, hobbies, career ambitions, etc, all in a positive tone. And I make my messages unique, showing interest towards them. I"ve experimented hundreds of times with different messages and profile changes to no avail. Ok so I've had a few dates (some of which have gone superbly), only to be ignored afterwards. But in 9 months of online dating I'm questioning whether its worth it?
This leads to my main point, getting a response is one thing. Getting a date is another. And beyond that is foreign territory to me. Fat people can get in shape to improve their chances, what can people with unattractice faces do?
Any advice appreciated :)
by the way, before people start giving me the whole improve yourself and attitude thing, as I am aware this sounds quite negative, I never show that side of me to others, I keep working on that in my own time.
thanks again gagers :)
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I could go on the love yourself rant and it really is true. Confidence in your appearance is key to others finding you attractive. You're saying you're unattractive and I can't really give tips on how to improve on that without seeing you so I'm going to go with bushy eyebrows, nose hair, ear hair, groom them all. If it's a case where you can grow a beard do it makes not very attractive guys look better and I don't even like beards. Those are just general tips but in reality a lot of people online dating are taken but stalking partners, married, or people too insecure to actually date. The ones who will are often ones you wouldn't really want to be with. It took me 4 years on and off to find someone and I'm cute as a button lol. Just hang in there and try meet people outside of it too. Don't rely on it but give it a chance too1