Under dressing on first date?

Is it bad to under dress when you go out on a date with a girl for the first time? Say I wear jeans and a nice polo shirt or just a nice shirt but she ends up wearing something more flashy and dressy. Would it look bad in my part? And same if I over dress? Is it ok to ask her what she is going to wear?


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What Girls Said 1

  • Depends on where you are going. If it's to a bar or something you're fine. If it's to a nicer restaurant, I'd vote no.

    Oh, and I wouldn't ask what she is wearing, not on a first date. You could tell her that the place you are going is casual or formal or whatever.


What Guys Said 1

  • Before going on first dates it's better to be safe than sorry: ask her what type of outfit you should wear (casual,suit,naked,etc).