1. Will you get so nervous that you put it off for a next time or altogether?
2. What goes through your mind before the approach?
3. What will you do to prepare for the approach?
Most Helpful Guy
Depends on the situation.
Most of the time I just avoid approaching them. Especially if they look like they're busy or with other friends.
Read my take here all about it
But there are times where I feel naturally inclined to talk to them. Like if I'm next to them in line or on the machine next to me. Or some other lame excuse.0
Most Helpful Girl
Very nervous. If i am not attracted to a guy i can approach him with confidence and find lots to talk about. I am usually ourgoing and full of confidence, in general. I find it difficult to approach a guy i like.
If i am attracted to a guy , i feel awkward and i become tongue- tied when i speak to him. I feel too self- conscious , in case i say or do something to make him dislike me.
If i feel i have made a fool of myself i try to avoid him or i clam up when he speaks to me due to embarrassment. This can appear to him that i am disinterested him him.0