There are tons of questions on this site from black girls asking if white guys like them and are willing to date them. Even so, I never see black girl actually with white guys when I'm out. Why is there such a disconnect there?
The reason is obvious. The girls you see in real life aren't the one's asking the questions. So all efforts in reassuring the black girls here that white guys like are interested in them does nothing. The average black girl / white guy isn't getting the message that one is interested in the other.
I know, I like black women, I see a lot of attractive black women walking around but I see very few dating outside their race. Also from my own perspective black women are the women least likely to interact with me. Asian women, mixed race women and White women will all interact with me, I'll be fortunate if a black woman (my age) ever talks to me. I'm not going to pursue a race of women who I assume just aren't interested in me. They need to open up a bit I think, they're too closed off.
Honestly a lot of black women like white guys, don't mean they would date them. I know a lot of black girls that get shit for dating a white guy. Sometimes they have to worry about whether or not he's only trying to date her because she's black. Looking at her as a trophy. There's the black female stereotype that can be a turn off for a lot of white guys. And others that are just intimidated, because they don't think a black woman would like them. For whatever reason the cultural differences, stereotypes and assumptions make it much less common for a black woman and a white man to date, but with the roles reversed it isn't as big n issue.
white people know they are on top of the racial hierarchy structure and often stick to themsevles. they know their demand is high (as you can see its common for women of all race to be open to them) so unless these white dudes grew up in a diverse area or in an environment where black girls are considered hot, its rare more rare. especially when the US is super segregated. it smore common in diverse places like new york.
women like to date up meaning someone higher in this league or status. but it doesn't mean the dude will accept them.
according to okcupid, black girls get the least responses or msges. its the white guys wholl have the final say whether they want to date the black girl or not.