I met this guy about a month ago at a bar. We exchanged numbers and since then I have asked him to meet up a couple of times. He keeps saying that he can't because he's doing something else and that he wants to get together but he's not sure when he can. So yesterday I asked him if he wanted to get together tomorrow night. He said he already had plans. So then I said it didn't seem like he had any time so I wasn't going to ask anymore and he could let me know if he wanted to meet up. He then said something like fine whatever and acted like he was upset. Why be mad when clearly he doesn't want to see me again?
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I have seen light after reading this and feel your frustration. I too have attempted to make a definite date for a set time and place but get a response of: I am back in town. Uhh I asked you out for next week not that you're back. She acted all busy so I said text me when you figure out your schedule. Nothing back but no worries, her loss.
You asked three times and even continued by prompting him to contact you. You've done your effort 10 fold and should just continue on. People will counter offer if there is a 50% interest, which is why I haven't heard anything from my girl. Most likely there is a second girl or ex in the background. And you're backup. Just keep moving forward girl ;)0