I once dated an overly nice guy. When I did something he didn't like he would just get really sulky and occasionally cry. It got to the point where I would have preferred him to yell at me. Don't get me wrong, constantly getting angry wouldn't be good either. I just felt like he should have stood up for himself sometimes instead of suliking about things.
Most of the self proclaimed nice guys on here aren't actually nice. They're terrible people in denial. It has nothing to do with guys getting sad or angry. It's that their personalities are dog shit. All the depth and personality of a used gym sock and then complain it's the woman's fault for not getting anywhere.
This goes for both men AND women. If any of us aren't successful with the opposite gender for the same exact reasons each time.. The common denominator is us. WE need to change. We can't blame other people because our egos are too weak to handle the thought of it. None of us are flawless.
I'd be less likely to date/sleep a guy who identified as a 'nice guy' than a guy who was totally open about being a dickhead. Nice guys in my opinion are resentful, bitter and angry and I want no part of that.
No, the problem with "Nice Guys" is the opposite. They get angry and petty instead of being temporarily sad and moving on. Then there's the fact they get misogynistic and act entitled for PRETENDING to give a shit about a girl.
Also sir, being Bitter is just prolonged anger. And some "Nice Guys" get violent with women if that's what you meant by masculine anger.
Im one of those girls that just finds it adorable when my man os sick or sad... i dont know why, but I just wanna kiss him everytime he looks upset...
The problem with nice guys is that they're bitches. They become doormats.
A girl wants a gentleman that respects her, sure, but not at the cost of being with a guy who allows himself to be walked on.
A woman wants a gentleman who respects her, but doesn't put up with shit. A guy who will push the boundaries, but respect it when she pushes back. A guy who isn't afraid to become a fucking beast ravage her when the time is appropriate. And yes, they like it when a guy can also not be a beast when necessary.
Nice guy is a loose term. To respect women you don't have to be a nice guy. To open doors, give your coat when it's cold, etc. you don't have to be a nice guy. Nice guys are typically synonymous with doormats, and women don't want a doormat.
No, I got angry instead of sad all the time and I used to be a dumbass "nice guy" because I used to think "girls want to be treated a certain way for them to fall in love with you" and essentially dehumanized all of them.
I have a mix of emotion I get sad that I'm alone but also think it's for the best and angry (after the fact ) if a girl doesn't work out then I punch bags and run such good fuel! but really I can't think of what it working out would be if Im honest I can't say I haven't got girls (interested in me) but I always make exuses I once told this girl I had a girlfriend when I've never had girlfriend in my life lol
The only reason they are called nice guys is simply because they dont go after what they want, they juat beat around the bush with women. JUST ASK HER OUT, they are never direct with women. And if they get rejected, they throw a temper tantrum.
What's relation between being nice and anger and sadness? Everyone gets angry and sad. Only difference is, some people handle it well while some don't. Those 'nice' guys are usually better at handling anger. A normal guy could be good or bad at handling anger. If a guy throws fit in anger it doesn't mean that he's an asshole. An asshole could be good or bad at handling anger... but he'd throw fits in either of situations :P
Note this: Anger is everywhere. You can't escape it. Embrace it.