We have been dating for about 4 months, and it is kinda long distance. We have great sex and always have a blast when we are together, our tastes are very much alike aswell. On the last few days however, she became hard to contact and finally told me during a phone conversation, that she is confused about us, leaning towards the "I don't think it's going to work / I need to think about it".
She also asked if I am dating other people; to which I said "no" (I have my own business and I am really short on time; always made time for her but I do have options).
I asked her if there was any reason in particular as to why she thinks it would not work out, she "didn't know".
Finally, I told her to think about it, that I want to be with her but I would back away and once she knew what she wants out of this, to contact me (in polite fashion).
obs: we mostly spoke over the phone, at night and did very little texting.
obs^2: we would also alternate between visiting each other.
obs^3: she told her family about me, why?
Why ask me if I am dating others, only to mention she mostly thinks it is not going to work out?
This has been a sobering moment for me, and I don't think I should invest any of my time and energy into this relationship anymore...
Any advices, please?
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Could be the distance involved (not sure as you said kinda long distance)
Could be she has eyes on someone one else.
Could be she just not sure.
I think you give her a little time, and see if it sorts out. If you care about her, its worth waiting a little bit, you can always walk away when you can't do it anymore, but walk away now and you dont know.
Best of luck.1