I'm a 6'1 shooting guard on my highschool Varsity's team, and I guess you could say I hang out with the popular crowd. I don't think I am undesirable because I have been asked out many times in the past, and have been subject to many passes from girls. I just never wanted to date before because I didn't really understand short-term relationships, and back in middle school where everyone started dating, that's the type they all ended up as.
Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone just to break up two weeks, or a couple months later? I never got that.
I always wanted a companion in a girls, someone I could stick with and talk to about things. Someone I could fall in love with, I couldn't really imagine dating a girl just for the physical benefits. I knew most girls at am younger age were immature, someone who is hard to build something real with, and I was always a little more mature compared to my peers. So I didn't really want to date any girl, and I didn't all the way up to now which is my junior year.
But now I yearn for a partner, someone who I can talk to day and night, and just ramble about anything and everything. I just want to have a girl I can lay down next to and not have to say anything, just being content to feel her next to me. Someone I can take places, and go everywhere with. Someone I can hug, and and kiss. Somebody to love.
The thing is though is I have like zero experience with anything. I don't know how to do anything to show attraction, or that I'm available in the open market. I don't know how to find a girl, and when I do, make that connection. I'm just completely lost, but have a need to be with someone.
So can someone help, it can be in any environment not just school
(Also sorry about being extra corny when writing this, that's just how it came out)
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Any girl would want what you are offering. Just go for it. Ask a girl that you gave established a good friendship with. Make sure you kind of know her a little first though0