I've only had sex once, but I find the whole culture surrounding it exhausting, which is why I sometimes wonder if I would be better off without it in my life, which might save me a lot of time, effort and stress. Thoughts of it hold me back from living the life I want to: a simple one where I can focus on important things and not be distrated by sex, my sex drive is low but I still get thoughts about it of course.
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My boyfriend and I are waiting until marriage. I agree with your thinking. Sex is about the most intimate thing you can do with a person, so it should be reserved for the right person which theoretically would be the person you marry. I don't get distracted by being horny or anything like that, and if something were to happen between my boyfriend and I, I know I would be able to move on more easily because sex didn't get in the way.1