I've been on 5 dates with a guy. I found out we have similar interests such as reading, writing, sketching. He's a self proclaimed nerd. It was appealing to me & it still is.
At 28, he's never had a girlfriend & seems his sexual experience has been limited to one night stands. He even confessed that he has thought of going to prostitutes on several occasions. I don't judge him for this.
On Halloween he asked me to pick him up. Long story. He's in the military. His license/registration was suspended so for a year he can't drive on base but he can drive anywhere off base. I picked him up & we went to a drive in. He acted like he owned the car. Cracked the window open, put his leg out. Deep inside that made me mad but I didn't say anything. I don't expect for a guy to pick me up but I don't enjoy picking up a date especially when he acts like this.
Yesterday, he asked me to pick him up again since his friend didn't want to drive him to pick up his car outside the gate. I said no. He finally got his car and we met up. The date was fun until we ate. I ordered fries & a milkshake & he ordered his stuff. He grabbed my fries & started eating them. He also grabbed my milkshake and took long sips. I said I wasn't hungry and let him eat it. It was rude & disgusting.
He also has bad breath. I've offered him mints & he never wants to take them. I don't know any other way to tell him his breath stinks.
A few other strange things that he had told me are as follows:
1. He keeps his receipts in case he's ever tied to a crime he'll have an alibi.
2. He's told me that it would be easy to dispose of a body in the ocean.
3. I've seen a movie poster on his FB that says something to the effect of, "Even if she doesn't consent, it is still sex."
Aside from that we have good conversations. We have yet to have sex. We've kissed but I pull away because of his breath. He told me that we wouldn't have sex till I was ready.
Should I move on or actually talk to him about these issues?
Most Helpful Guy
Talk to this guy and attempt to resolve these issue's, this person appear's to be broken, let's not get into the extensive detail's of this, fixing him should be the responsibility of society, I would recommend that you move on.
A good relationship, is based off a fundamental framework of shared belief's, the greater your beliefs, the better the relationship.
continue an effort into finding people who share the way you see the world, and who would want to share the world with you for you.
Anything else is futile waste of effort, in the context of general relationship's, especially romantic one's.0
Most Helpful Girl
Move on, this guy is a loser and loose cannon just waiting to erupt. He has these his Problem Patterns here, dear, and as wise as an ol owl I am, it's Only going to get worse, along with his Big mouth and bad breath.
You deserve better than Gomer Pyle who has no style. I don't trust this Military monster in uniform and for all you Know... He has disposed of a body and someday One of them could be you.
Good luck and no salutes to him.. Give him his walking papers. xxoo0