I told my boyfriend that I had HPV, I got it back in highschool and was told by a doctor that I had gotten rid of it. (HPV falls between the cold virus and HIV in that it can be cleared but some not everyone can get rid of it and it is an STI.) I know he needs time to process, but how long should I wait?
- 1 dayVote A
- 2 dayVote B
- 3 days +Vote C
- Wait for him to text you.Vote D
- A few hoursVote E
Most Helpful Guy
Have you had sex with your boyfriend? How long have you been together? My girlfriend and I found out several months into our relationship that we both had chlamydia, and we didn't know it until she went in for a routine yearly test. Of course, we were both treated, and that was that. It's done and over with, and just part of our past now. We don't know where it came from, but all that matters is that it's gone. With you, it sounds like the whole thing happened before your boyfriend came into the picture. You're clean now, aren't you? So, it's just part of your past. It doesn't change who you are as a person. You had sex with someone who didn't know they had it. Oh well, that's life.
If he cares about you, it will bother him very little, or perhaps not at all. I know that my girlfriend slept around in high school and had chlamydia back then as well, but I don't care. We're together now and I love her, so why does what happened in high school matter? She's been loyal to me for two years now. I was a completely different person back then, as was she. I'm sure you have also come a long way since high school, as most people do. Just give him whatever amount of time he needs. Maybe a few days. It shouldn't take that long, however.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say you should wait for him to text you. He probably needs some time to process this. It's a big deal.0