we agreed to go to the beach on the third date. 15 minutes before the date she messaged and cancells the beach date and offers to meet 3 hours later and go to the cinema. the reason for flaking was her studies. I felt that she was reluctant at first to go to the beach at first but then she agreed then she flaked 15 minutes before the date. i know that studies is not the reason. why is that and how should I act because I hate flaking the last minute?
Most Helpful Girl
If you hated don't ask her out again. Guys are really strange human beings. If I don't like something a guy does and I'm not in a relationship with him, I cut ties. You want to see this girl again for real or do you just want to have sex with a or tried to have sex with. Get your own head together. There are other reasons besides studying that are legitimate and that is the break that I would give to her. Maybe she needed to take her little sister to the hospital for open-heart surgery – something serious like that. Perhaps she had diarrhea and felt like crap. If you want to give the girl a break you have a multitude of possibilities and potentials to consider if you don't, then cut0
Most Helpful Guy
In order to simplify the situation, don't play mind games. Ask her if she still wants to go with you to the movies. If she doesn't, then you can just dump that bitch and move on.0