So basically, your girlfriend/ boyfriend says "I love you" for the first time. You either are not sure that you reciprocate the feeling, or sure that you don't. What would you answer?
- Say it back anyway, or it will hurt them too much !14% (17)28% (21)19% (38)Vote
- Saying nothing is better than lying...61% (72)47% (36)55% (108)Vote
- It depends (explain?)25% (30)25% (19)26% (49)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Loving someone can be different to being in love with someone. So to not speak it for fear of not feeling it. Then we can always use this term of not being in love but being able to love them for who they are. So your not lying. Your just reserving the commitment for another time. X0
Most Helpful Girl
If someone doesn't feel the same way I want them to be honest. I've had the situation happen ALL TOO OFTEN by the way, where I love a guy and he doesn't even care. He's just in the relationship to get sex and the girlfriend experience. I always hear the excuse "Well, you kept talking to me". Ummm ya, that's what gf's do! I'm not a mind reader. If a guy doesn't like me or no longer has an interest in the relationship he has to tell me. I don't have time for bs anymore
If they continue on like nothing is wrong, and even say everything is fine when I ask, then it's not my fault that I didn't know.
I don't play games and wouldn't put someone through the pain of saying I loved someone if they didn't love me.0