He's really attractive to me. We get along well so far but his fingers are slightly clubbed. It isn't that bad cause it took me a while to notice. But now that I know.. it's hard to not notice it. It throws me off a bit. I don't want to be shallow cause he's a sweet guy and could be someone really special but I don't want to force myself if it bothers me a bit. I feel so bad. Has or is anyone dating someone with this condition? How did you feel about it and What should I do?
Would you ever date someone with mildly clubbed fingers? Should I keep dating some who has it?
What Guys Said 1
That doesn't sound so bad. You didn't mention that he is over weight of fat. It could be a condition that causes his fingers / hands to swell up. Some meds can also have this as a side effect. It may sound odd but you could ease it into a conversation by asking if he hurt his hand. When he asks you why you ask just say it looks swollen , if you don't see that as to forward. Either way I hope this one flaw doesn't turn into a deal breaker1
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