I've been dating a guy for a while now he is VERY laid back (shy sometimes) and the last time I spoke to him was a week ago and that last time when we messaged everything was fine he made conversation etc. He said to me we should meet up next week the last time I went on a date with him but since I messaged him last I haven't heard from him. Is he my interested anymore? If so shall I just ignore him and assume he's not bothered or message him one text just to ask what's going on and whether he's bothered about meeting again?
Most Helpful Guy
I am very laid back, but even I have to draw the line at how long is too long. Whether it's serious or hopeful to go that way, I now only give people 7 days. Still better than the wait 2-3 days thing, and gives them a little time to be lazy. Granted this is influenced both by my age and a hope who took nearly a month to respond.0
Most Helpful Girl
Didn't completely understand what you wrote. BUT if he ignored your last text. DON'T text again. he saw your message, you put effort in texting to him. the ball is in his court.
If you guys just haven't spoken since your last convo (meaning he didn't ignore). Then I would just send ONE text saying hey whats up. Don't ask about where he's been or why he hasn't texted etc. Just a casual hey, and see what happens.
This happened to me once. he would text me everyday then one day he told me he had loads of work. so i backed off. and then almost 2 weeks later he reappeared. So he may be genuinely busy or something. but ya i guess no matter how busy he still could have texted. If you guys have close friends in common try checking with them. I got info from friends on what my guy was up to hahah0