If you feel things are going to slowly and you want the guy to hurry up, do you mention competition or try to show that you're not waiting around forever?
Most Helpful Girl
No. If a guy only starts putting in effort when he's afraid of losing me to someone else, he'll just go back to his old ways once he has me. If he's not putting in the amount of effort I want right from the start, then he most likely never will. He should be putting effort into it because he actually wants to, not because he feels he has to.2
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