I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and they are both in a frat/sorority. i wonder if i had met him first, do u think we could have been together? I really want to meet more frat guys but I want them to see me as girlfriend material and not just a hook up. :/
But would you be happy in a sorority? Would the cattiness or pettiness bother you?
I had a rule about such organizations: "I shall not participate in any group that abases my individual dignity, nor through inaction allow my self to become a participant." Inspired by "I, Robot", or "The Repo Man Code":
whether or not a guy wants a relationship has nothing to do with whether or not they are in a frat. What frats and sororities do is ensure that the type of people who join frats and sororities find each other. Whether or not they 'date' as a result is up to them. If you are not the type of girl to join a sorority, you probably aren't going to like the type of guy that joins a fraternity. They live in a slightly different world than the rest of us..