Dating is simple. Two people intetested, they go out, they see if it works. Only one is interested, don't bother. Simple. I understand the psychology of playing hard to get... scarce resources are more attractive, etc etc. But I find it SUCH a turn off in a guy. I want a guy who knows what he wants. I don't have time to waste on little boys playing games. It's immature and irritating. I am shutting down on the guy I'm dating atm becuase of this. He keeps initating things and then not following through. And then telling me how much he likes me. If he's playing hard to get, tt really is unattractive. Why are men being given this advise? Yeah a guy following me around like a puppy is equally irritating. What is so wrong with straightforward and being upfront, and getting to the point? Jeesh
Most Helpful Guy
Marry me ! Lol
I so don't get it either. It's like someone once thought: dating is too simple, why not make it more complicated?
I don't want games period. I always kinda liked those notes we would write when 9-10yo "Will yu go out wit me? Yes or no". I always liked how straightforward they were lol2
Most Helpful Girl
I find it a turn off too.1