I'm willing to do what it takes to get a man. Strongly considering it. I will help him find work, clean him up and move him in. As long as I see he wants more out of life. Like a relationship, job, and family. TThing is I wonder if he will go astray once he is fixed up.
What are your thoughts?
Also how can I get a homless man to want to get to know me.
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I know what you are saying but it sounds like a really bad idea.
It's good to want to help people. But I just don't think it's a good idea. Too many variables. You are opening yourself up to someone who you don't really know. Usually when people date they get to know each other first. What you want to do is opening your home to a guy you barely know.
I'm not saying all homeless people are like this. But you shouldn't let strangers into your home. The person could rob you or worse. Plus you have no idea what they are like.
What happens if you invite them in and you find they are not what you want for a relationship. Do you just toss them back out? That would be kinda mean.
Plus there is no guarantee. They are human just like everyone else. What if they don't want to be with you after all you have done? You can't just toss them back out onto the street.
The best thing to do is to try and get to know as many people as possible. Volunteering is a great way to meet people. Find people with similar interests, join some clubs, get some hobbies which require you to be around people.
Let friends and family know you are looking. I feel your pain, sometimes it's very lonely out there. I wish it was easier to find someone. But the reason it's so hard is because if it were easy no one would really care about it.1