Well I've never had sex even though I'm 20. And thought of it makes me worried. I mean I really want to get to know the person before I decide to have sex with him. Would guys consider this to be a problem? I'm not saying I would make him wait a year, but maybe a couple of months. Is this a deal breaker to guys?
So how long would you wait?
- Sex on first date4% (2)10% (4)7% (6)Vote
- 1 week2% (1)8% (3)5% (4)Vote
- About one month6% (3)26% (10)15% (13)Vote
- 2- 4 months17% (8)10% (4)14% (12)Vote
- 5 months - a year23% (11)15% (6)20% (17)Vote
- I could wait forever48% (22)31% (12)39% (34)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I don't like putting set time frames on things such as sex. Unless the guy is saving it for marriage, in which case that wouldn't fly with me seeing as how I view sex as a pretty important part of a good relationship. Aside from that, I'll wait however long it takes till both of us feel ready. In other words, till it just happens, which is how it took place with my boyfriend after we'd been been officially dating for just over a month.2