Started seeing a new girl and the chemistry between us was intense and uncontrollable. After a couple dates though she said she couldn't see me anymore, because she had a "feeling".
She wasn't looking for a serious relationship and I later found out that I was actually everything she really wanted. Problem is she is scared to death of falling madly in love.
I wished her well, told her that one she gets over it, she knows where to find me.
Wondering who else has had this experience and what came of it.
Most Helpful Girl
Aw... she need serious thearpy... like BIG TIME! Massive... she need to let go of her ex's0
Most Helpful Guy
I had a similar experience, and she thought it was a too good to be true, and she was worried about what would happen if for some reason it didn't work out. I told her that if she goes through life always being scared of making a commitment, that she would live a lonely life. I told her that if she wants something, she needs to take that chance. There were many talks about the same thing, but it ended up working out for a while. Eventually it ended because I moved to a different state, and we tried the long distance thing but it didn't work. So I would say, that if you both have strong feelings for each other, make sure that it's emotional and not just physical. A lot of people confuse lust with love. Ask her on another date, and tell her that if she wants, you two could leave out the physical part, and work on building a stronger relationship. If you go through life scared, then you will never truly be happy. Just let her know how you feel about it, and what you want to do. If she still thinks you're too perfect, just punch her in the neck lol. Just kidding, but seriously, I think if you talk to her, maybe she will be willing to try.1