Yes I could, because I would not be with someone unless I really liked them as a person. So if I was already talking/with to someone I really liked I would not stop that just because a really 'hot' girl wanted to be with me. And if i wasn't talking to or with someone I wouldn't just then be with them just because they are 'hot' as there is a lot more to being with someone than them looking good. But that's just me.
If she's more cognitive of herself being "Hot", than of being a warm individual... I'll say NO! In fact... I may say "HELL NO!" If her Ego wasn't dependent on her beauty for it's entire identity, she genuinely wanted to share life and eventually grow together with me then all the while and forever after, I will treat her as the beautiful creature that she is, especially sharing with her the basis of the character that influenced her in the first place. Taking care of ourselves. In the physical sense, I want to be to her what she is to me.
If she's just knock-out gorgeous. Like what-are-you-doing-wasting-your-time-with-me (?), I'll decline because there is no way I'd feel comfortable. She's too good and other dudes are gonna pine for her when I'm not around. So, not worth it.
Besides, I'm sure she can find someone who's up-there with her. Like, easily.
If she gives off mentally unstable vibes, I will say no, but I'm an older man, and I've been with my perfect 10 woman (and lost her). Nothing gives you mental strength like actually having everything you ever desired and losing it: you know life continues, and there are billions of other hot people... who are not insane.
Few reasons I would say no: 1. It was pay back time for something; like bitch gotcha back hehe 2. She has an STD 3. She's family 4. Punishment 5. If she's too drunk... If she passes all these standards, why not...
I'm so sad for people who think that only looks matter to a relationship. To have a relationship, or even sex sometimes, personality, behaviour, interests and so on, all of these play role. If a hot, unbelievably handsome guy approached me, abut he had a bad personality or interests that I don't like at all, then yes that's a very good reason to say no to someone.
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