The older I get, the more stupid playing hard to get seems to me. I'm someone who likes to wear their heart on their sleeve. Whatever I am thinking about, in reference to a relationship, I want to share with my SO. If I really care about them I will tell them and show them. Is this a bad thing? Or can it be a turn off for guys? I feel like guys are all about the mystery.
I was beginning to think I was the only one not willing to play stupid games. You are right I feel like if you like someone and your intentions are pure, why not approach and share? How else are you suppose to know the person is on the same page as you! It makes me not want to date anymore because everyone wants to play games. The world simply isn't ready for us girl! :)
Nah screw the playing hard to get. The mystery crap doesn't work on me because I don't like to make assumptions about people which is what the whole mystery approach feeds off of. It's alluring because a lot of people do assume and usually assume very positive things about the person.
Playing hard to get is totally pointless. It gets too close to where the other person gives up and moves on. People who play hard to get have only got themselves to blame when it's over before it's started.
I have a feeling that with playing hard to get you can get the player to like you. Right? Becayse for a olayer the chase is wuit importent. But when a guy is really looking for something serious i can imagine a girl playing hard to get is a real turn off. So by playing hard to get you can attrract the "wrong kind" of guy...