me and my friend like the same guy. he is 16, my friend is 19, and I'm 16. he is like two months younger than me. I massage him a lot and she messages him a lot. last week he told ne that he is really bad at messaging back except for her. but the same day i made a joke about him being gay and he replied with "I can't be gay! I flirt too much!!!" and kept moving his eyebrows up and down at me. when we were playing video games at my house he sat really close to me and that was across the room from my friend. and he let me lean against him. but when he was leaving he picked her up bridal style and said he was stealing her. my question is what do i do? and does he like me or her?
She's 19. That should be the end of the question. It's not right for a 19 year old boy to date a 16 year old girl and it's just as wrong when the genders are flipped. She needs to look in her own age gap because the maturity levels should be extremely different and their developmental levels ARE different.
I think he is playing both of you and that if your friendship means anything to you then you should make a pact to not get involved with this guy and keep your friendship strong. There is not much worth ruining a friendship for and he certainly is not it.
He's a flirt... he seems like he is playing with both of you, trying to see who he can have sex with... move on to someone else, he's not worth it.. if your friend ends up being with him, I am 100% sure he'll cheat on her,