There's quite an age gap between my boyfriend and I (I'm 21, he's 26) and while we haven't been dating for too long we've been friends for quite some time. So in my opinion we're no where near that level of commitment (yet, but I certainly won't shoot down the possibility of a future together) but because of the age difference I'm a touch worried that he might be ready for that sooner than I am (though neither of us are terribly religious). So while I know there's no set age for people to be ready for marriage or commitment, when in your experience does this start to creep into the minds of men? He just seems to be dropping the odd humorous hint about a distant future together and I'm just wondering what might be going through his mind hypothetically without freaking him out quite early into the romantic relationship.
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Hmm I think it's different for many men, sometimes they think of it in their late twenties and sometimes they don't till they're 30, usually men are okay with when the women wants to if she wants it down the road they won't shoot it down, it's more common for them to shoot it down too early, I know my ex he got engaged when he was 24 I think (that didn't work out) and now he doesn't want to till he's in his 30's. I think you should ask him without hinting that you WANT TO do this right away becase he may assume but just casually ask when in his mind does he see himself settling down0