here's a great blog (I think?) that explains how I feel about it best: http://bust.com/creep-shaming-is-a-guy-creepy-because-hes-unattractive-or-is-he-just-you-know-creepy.html
personally, I find guys creepy when they won't leave me alone after I tell them I'm not interested. how attractive he is, or how wealthy he appears to me has no effect on that..
a few months ago as I was walking home after spending a little time on the beach a guy came out of nowhere, made a little joke, which made me laugh and started a conversation with me about several random things. he was funny, well dressed, and good looking, but didn't have an overall personality I actually find attractive. eventually, I really just wanted to finish my walk alone (I'm a bit of a loner and enjoy walks by myself often) so I politely said to him "well it was nice talking to you, I'm going to put my ear phones back on and finish my walk." he then got upset and started asking what's wrong with me? is it because I'm short? we were the same height by the way and personally I prefer guy close to the same height, not overly tall.. is it the way I'm dressed? and several other random questions about what was wrong with him.. I told him nothing. I just wanted to be alone and nicely asked him to stop following me. he refused. asked over and over again what be did wrong. asked me why I was being so mean and only finally stopped following me when I threatened to walk over to the nearby police station. It should NEVER get to that point. that guy was a special level of creep. but he wasn't the first guy to follow me and refuse to go away the first time I asked. those are the men I find creepy. I don't care what you look like or how much money you make. your creepiness is entirely based on behavior AFTER you've been turned out.
- yes, women treat unattractive men/seemingly poorer men like creeps43% (3)36% (4)39% (7)Vote
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- no. it's an excuse men make when they're turned down often29% (2)9% (1)17% (3)Vote
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