I'm getting to know this guy. He has discovered I'm a virgin and out of nowhere he says things like '' that's why I have to have you, virgins are the nicest people. I love that you have this quality''. I pointed out the fact I didn't think me being a virgin was a quality and I'd prefer to be complimented on my personality. He said he definitely thinks it's a quality. He also asked if I'd wait for him?
Anyways I'm confused about how he came to this conclusion. He is not the only man they has made a big deal out of it. I once had a man tell me he wants his next girlfriend to be a virgin and he listed his reasons.
I think he meant it in a way as in you don't sleep around, you're not a home wrecker, you won't use him... Unless he's a virgin hunter, if that's the case, run, and don't forget to take your virginity with you.
I would be careful not to make it obvious to someone you're dating recently about being a virgin. Too many non-virgin creeps that get too focused on the whole ''I must now have her virginity'' and they don't even like you overall for who you are as a person but only for the state of never having sex. That's as if they want to keep you as an possession.
I would get creeped out if I were dating a man that said ''I want my next girlfriend to be a virgin or low-count'' while he isn't. It spells out HYPOCRISY.
He just wants to take your virginity and is trying to flatter you, men just like virgin's it's that simple. It doesn't change who you are if you're a Virgin or not so it isn't a very good statement to say. If you like him go for it though, have a nice day :)
I don't know. Being a virgin does not correlate with niceness or the whole you as a person. These two just do not connect. Maybe it's just his personal preference? Or he might be just one of the guys who take pride in taking the v-card of a woman (which is shallow for me tbh)