I'm getting to know this guy. He has discovered I'm a virgin and out of nowhere he says things like '' that's why I have to have you, virgins are the nicest people. I love that you have this quality''. I pointed out the fact I didn't think me being a virgin was a quality and I'd prefer to be complimented on my personality. He said he definitely thinks it's a quality. He also asked if I'd wait for him?
Anyways I'm confused about how he came to this conclusion. He is not the only man they has made a big deal out of it. I once had a man tell me he wants his next girlfriend to be a virgin and he listed his reasons.
Most Helpful Guy
I think he meant it in a way as in you don't sleep around, you're not a home wrecker, you won't use him...
Unless he's a virgin hunter, if that's the case, run, and don't forget to take your virginity with you.10
Most Helpful Girl
I would be careful not to make it obvious to someone you're dating recently about being a virgin. Too many non-virgin creeps that get too focused on the whole ''I must now have her virginity'' and they don't even like you overall for who you are as a person but only for the state of never having sex. That's as if they want to keep you as an possession.
I would get creeped out if I were dating a man that said ''I want my next girlfriend to be a virgin or low-count'' while he isn't. It spells out HYPOCRISY.4