Nobody should be hitting anyone. I've gotten punched and slapped by girls. A girlfriend tried to bite me and break skin. I held her head back, but didn't hit her.
I've always hated even "flirt punching." Though I think a slight, playful tap on the butt (not hard, not spanking, not rough, but just playing) might be the gray area.
Otherwise, just... no. No matter how provoked you may feel, even if it's out of line, the only hitting should be self defense if you honestly fear for your life and you have no other option to get away safely, then ok. Otherwise, no. It's not cool for either gender.
One time this girl called me a name, then i called her one back. It must have struck a nerve cuz this girl kicked me in the balls. Didn't even get detention/suspended or anything. Total bullshit. It was really hard too, i fucking crumbled. You CAN actually fucking smash them, you know. And the girls around her thought it was just the funniest fucking thing in the world.
If the paradigms were switched, those girls would have either called the cops or stomped the shit out of her.
Guy's should NEVER hit girls, It's WEAK. And girls should never hit guys, they're asking to be hit back. Unless she's a wrestler and she's really beating the c#%p out of you, then I suppose it's self defence, and your a wimp!
Never, and never would! But I have given some wickedly hard spank/ass grabs :)
There was this one time my girl was running her mouth to some guy and I had to push her away because all she was doing was starting trouble between him and I, and she got mad that I didn't 'defend her honor' so she hit me, so I slapped her square across the lips and told her that if she didn't shut the fuck up I'd drag her back to that guy and let her finish what she started.
Not interested in relationships or marriage. But ideally women should be beaten from time-to-time in a relationship
We were playing around by pretending to punch each other and we got a little too into it (we were slowly punching harder and harder - trying to one-up the other/typical behavior for like a 12 year old lol) and I may have... accidentally landed a punch square on the bridge of his nose.
I felt really bad about it. He bruised.
That was the end of that game. I told him he could punch me back. Fair is fair, a punch for a punch. He said he'd save it for later. Kind of like Marshal's Slap game with Barney.
But don't worry. He has promised me that I've got one coming. His current plan is to punch me in the face on our wedding day instead of kiss me.
Preacher: You may now kiss the bride Him: *Decks Bride*
As for how I feel about men and women hitting each other. I don't approve of putting your hands on each other in violence, but I feel like if you're going to do it (man or woman) you have signed an unwritten contract agreeing to be hit back.
I don't agree with the double standard of men can't hit women but women can hit men. If men can't hit women then women can't hit men. Or, if women want to keep their hitting rights then men should be allowed to hit women.
Like, if I, for some reason, genuinely flew off the handle and attacked my boyfriend I would not expect any of this restraint nonsense that guys talk about doing. I would expect him to come back at me with the full force of all his power and lay me out cold. Crazy people deserve to have their ass kicked.
I am 5'4 and 100 lbs. My boyfriend is 6'5 and 200. I would expect him not to take into consideration our size difference. If I were behaving violently toward him I would want him to put me down. End the threat. Like, if I attacked him, none of this grabbing of my wrists and holding me at bay. I'd want him to close line me. Knock me out, punch me in the face, fracture my jaw, put me in a full nelson. Whatever it takes to end the threat.
Just like if he were going to attack me, you can bet your ass I'll fight back and it will be to end the threat.
I don't mess around when it comes to defending yourself. I don't care what you're packing down there. You hit someone, they have every right to hit you back.
I have never and I absolutely detest women who hit men. Men should not hit women either mind you, but she has the benefit of social biased. If she slaps him it will not be viewed as severe as if he hits her. So if a girl hits a guy whom she KNOWS will not hit her back, that is low and deplorable. Nobody should strike anybody in anger, and if you cannot control yourself you need to NOT be in a relationship.
I only physically with agress towards someone who forced themselves into my space, I have never hurt someone intentionally and dont plan to.(my rugby ( I was the scared to death sprinter at the far end) and brother wrestling days aside). I dont even like hitting for spanking nope nope. I am in a d/s relationship and we feel absolutely no need for violence at all. there is no excuse for hurting someone.. but if you accidentally do be mindful and kind if you can ^.^ fake punching still hurts just as sarcasm still hurts. not all pain is instant if you look back on the memory and it hurts maybe you shouldn't make memories of joy that way. anywho good luck with what your looking for.
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