Cheating is bad. But so is emotional blackmail, and it sounds like you chose the wrong person to have an affair with, unfortunately.
Here's the thing... she's probably bluffing. It takes a lot of guts to go face a woman and confess that you are nothing more than a low-life homewrecker. Do you think she will actually do it? Most women don't really want that kind of thing going public. I guess my second question would be this: what happened that turned her against you? What turned her from being your lover to being your worst enemy?
I think your psycho friend in this instance is making as much of a mistake as you are. I would remind her that if she does go talk to your wife, every time you see her with a guy, you plan on approaching him to give him the 'heads-up' on what a manipulative and unstable wreck she is. Because, you know... he deserves to know who he's with. Turn about is fair play.
Talk to your wife. Bring diamonds when you go talk to her, and a heartfelt apology letter. Shed some tears. Tell her that she has your whole heart, and that you made the biggest mistake of your life. Mean every word of it. Let her know that she is your partner, your soul mate, and your best friend. Hope that she accepts your apology. And then don't cheat anymore.
Your sweet wife sure didn't deserve to get cheated. If you want to find any solution to this, the only way is stop being selfish for once and confess to your wife. She deserves to know and be given the choice of either working this out with you or divorcing you.
For future reference, if you feel the need to cheat - do it with a woman who is also married, then you both have the same to lose!
As regards your current situation, I don't know what to tell you. This woman is clearly throwing her toys out of the pram. She's realised that you're not going to leave your wife for her, so now she wants revenge and doesn't give a toss about hurting your wife in the process, so long as you "pay" for not choosing her.
Sensible approach is to just get in first and tell your wife. Alternatively, as @TripleAce said, what do you have on this woman?
Ya done messed up, man. The truth comes out eventually. You should tell your wife as soon as you can, and not have her hear about it from someone else.
How do you know your wife is sweet, if she is doing same behind your as? Don't worry life is journey, whatever happened, happened. Go tell you your wife and feel sorry, else don't afraid of that girl and let her tell, nothing will happen. Whatever happens, happens for luck
ask her why she wants to tell your wife does she love you, or does she feel guilty? Next, I would tell your wife, man. Tell it was a mistake or whatever, but you need to tell her. That was also an inappropriate thing to do to your wife. Shouldn't of cheated, dude.
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