A girlfriend and I are in a bit of a debate. She says that when a guy is first introduced to a woman, by the time a short conversation is over, he has already categorized her into three relationship options; friend, girlfriend material, or potential fling/hookup. Is this true? Do you analyze every girl you meet?
- Yes - It can't be helped!Vote A
- No - I just meet new people and take things from there.Vote B
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According to a study it takes the human mind 2 secs after meeting someone to udge whether you like them or not. That being said. It is impossible to tell if you are friend, girlfriend or fling upon just meeting you. For me every girl starts in the "fling" catagory, why? because I'm physically attracted to you and that's it, I haven't met you, don't know your interests or personality. Once I get to know you, you might be upgraded to either potential girlfriend or friend. If you are someone I could potentially have a stable relationship with, share common inerests with and have a lot of fun hanging out with then I will ask you out. If I just have fun hanging out with you or share common interests then you are a friend. If I'm not interested in you at all and we do something (likely because I'm drunk) its a fling1