Or does it generally make you laugh and write them off? I just got a message on OkCupid, which I haven't actively used since I signed up some months ago, and the guy was decently smooth in his approach:
But it just kind of made me laugh, and didn't really make me want to message him back or take him up on his offer.
So do you usually fall for smooth talkers or are you immune to them?
... LOL. yeah it'd just be a giggle and a "seriously?" [in my head] from me. I'm not really one of those people who enjoys a smooth talker unless he's just one of those clowns who likes to act like a stud.
Smooth talkers usually make me laugh but their background personality usually decides whether It is a good laugh or a bad laugh - Of the two guys, I am not sure what female version of them would be but the first guy would get an icebreaker maybe have a bit of a chat to see where it would go while the second guy would be "Eeeww, Delete"
😂me personally, I couldn't say that shit. In my mind, a guy who uses those words come off as over elaborate. I hope women can see that. The other guy is direct. I Would say something along the lines of, "hey gorgeous, what you listening to? I love music and you have earphones?"
It might give me a good giggle but it makes me feel suspicious because he might actually be sweet and try to go for this approach because it usually makes a woman smile BUT he might also just be trying to get me into bed so... I don't know, I would maybe take him up on his offer and then see how it goes.